Ben getting to grips with Foggy Mountain Breakdown…
This is the website and blog of Paul and Michelle Brown.
We're not really sure what this site is going to be for but we hope you don't get too bored looking around.
Eventually the site will be a central point to keep our family and friends up to date with what we're up to as one side of our family is always going to be on the other side of the ocean.
For now you'll probably have to put up with inane ramblings about banjos and "what we did on our holidays..."
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Ben getting to grips with Foggy Mountain Breakdown…
It’s been a while since I’ve posted, but with good reason – the past couple months have been exhausting. To make up for an absence of posting – here’s a year in review for the Broons.
2010 was the year of Ben for us. Just after New Year’s, we found out that we were expecting a baby. Soon after that, I also learned I had a job interview to be the Children and Families worker for St. Philip’s Church in Joppa. This was a great opportunity as it would mean that Paul and I could once again be together on a Sunday morning since St. P’s is Paul’s church home and where we were married as well. Thankfully, the job was offered and on Palm Sunday I said goodbye to my friends at Old Saint Paul’s Church where I’d been working as the children’s and youthworker for two and a half years. On Easter Sunday, I started up at St. P’s.
In April, Paul held a Folk Concert at the Church as a way to raise money to volunteer overseas at a summer camp in Kansas as a music instructor for adults and young people with additional needs. His concert was great fun and it raised enough money to cover Paul’s plane ticket as well as to buy several instruments for the campers.
In May, I had the opportunity to represent Action of Churches Together in Scotland at the Ecumenical Kirchentag in Munich. This was a great chance to attend a large Christian conference while having one last holiday with Paul before we became a family.
In July, Paul travelled to Kansas for Camp Adventure. He had a wonderful week teaching music and getting to know other banjo players who had also travelled over to volunteer. He even had some time to travel to Chicago and visit our friends Liz and Dave as well as Josh and Deliverance. Meanwhile, my parents, Aunt Barb and Cousin Peggy were over to Europe on holiday and I was able to get the train down to London to see them for a couple days. As there was a heat wave and I was 7 months pregnant, we didn’t do too much touring about London, but we did manage to finally see the Tower of London and I also managed to catch up with my dear friend Sandra and her family.
August was filled with nesting and last minute preparations for the wee one’s arrival whilst I wrapped up my work for the Diocese of Edinburgh as their Youth and Children’s Officer. When I finished up on 1 September, my friend Morag returned to post from her own maternity leave. The year I spent in the Diocesan post was one of the most rewarding years in ministry work for me. I thoroughly enjoyed taking part in Diocesan events and leading youth/children’s activities and training sessions for volunteers. I am so thankful for all the wonderful people I met while in post.
September was the month of waiting on Baby Brown. My mom arrived in the first week as I went on maternity leave. The baby should have arrived on 18 September, but instead he kept us waiting until October… This did give mom and I loads of time to catch up though which was nice. Then, on 1 October, I was induced and finally on 2 October at 6:38am, Baby Brown made his appearance! We named him Benjamin Stuart Brown. (Ben for Ben Folds – one of Paul’s favourite musicians and Stuart after Paul’s brother).
The next three months are a bit of a blur as parenthood has kept us on our toes while we exist on very little sleep, but it’s been an adventure we wouldn’t have missed for the world. Ben is an incredibly sweet and alert little boy and each day we see his personality emerging. It’s still hard to believe that we get to be his parents. Over Christmas we faced the scariest time yet as parents – watching our little boy suffer through his first big sickness. On 23 December, Ben’s temperature spiked high and we took him into hospital. After several tests, he was admitted into an isolation nursery for 48 hours of antibiotics until his test results could come back and we were sure what got him so sick so quickly. Our first Christmas as a family was spent at the Royal Hospital for Sick Children and thankfully, our little boy pulled through just fine. It was an exhausting two days, but Paul and I made it work for our family Christmas celebration and we even got to see Santa come round the hospital and deliver a bag of presents for Ben which was pretty magical in itself. On Christmas Day we learned that Ben had been battling swine flu (and that that’s what had both Paul and I sick as well earlier in the week…). We were released and were able to get to Ben’s grandparents’ house for Christmas Dinner. He had a rough cough for another week and a bit, but is now back to his usual self and much to our surprise, actually sleeping through the night more often – yay for more sleep!
It was definitely an eventful first Christmas for the Broons. I found it all made the Christmas story even more real for me as I watched my little baby boy, so vulnerable and helpless, tackle such an unexpected illness and I thought of how Jesus came into this world as a vulnerable and helpless baby as well. How scared Mary must have been to be the mother of Jesus and anxious Joseph must have been to look after both of them when searching for a place to stay that night. All of a sudden, that nativity scene is even more emotional for me.
We’re happy to be home again and have our baby boy back to good health. We are looking forward to seeing what 2011 brings and hope to catch up with you soon. Many blessings for you and your family this year.
This year I am particularly thankful for:
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends and family in the US. I am jealous of your four-day weekend, football and gluttony during this festive period. Enjoy!
You may have noticed a distinct lack of updates over the past wee while. This is mainly because mish and I have been busy with other things: namely going halfsies on a baby.
Our beautiful baby boy Ben Stuart Brown was born on the 2nd of October at 6.38am weighing in at 8lbs 5oz.
Thank you all for all your kind words, love and support in the recent months. It really means a great deal to us.
Check back soon for more details and updates (I promise). In the meantime, while we catch up on some sleep, here are some photos. We’ll be posting some more on Flickr soon.
I’m finally back in Scotland and just about getting over my jet-lag. Right now I’m just enjoying being back with Mish and the Bump. Before I blog some more about some of my adventures in Kansas at Camp, I wanted to share with you a recording I made of Virgil and Bonnie singing.
Virgil is Camp Adventure’s Pastor. He and his wife Bonnie lead the campers during their Quest time. They are both wonderful people. I loved their singing – it was so heartfelt and authentic.
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